Smaller houses and apartments don’t stop many Japanese couples from sleeping in different beds or even rooms. This is not some kind of an intimate issue or problem with the relationship, but something that they believe is good for them.
We at Bright Side found out why married couples in Japan choose to sleep separately, and we really like their reasons.
They have different sleep schedules.
The first thing that makes Japanese couples decide to go to bed separately is different work schedules. Waking up your significant other just because you got home late from work or have to leave early won’t result in good quality rest for them. This is why spending the night in a different room makes sense. This will give them both an undisturbed and healthier sleep.
Babies sleep with their mothers.
Japanese mothers sleep with their children and this is considered very important, so the father needs to decide if he wants to share the same bed or go to a different room. Even science has proven that co-sleeping can help parents and children get a more restful sleep. It helps the child to maintain a stable temperature and heart rate (which is really critical in infancy) and at the same time, it decreases the chance of sudden infant death syndrome. Also, this contributes to the child having better self-esteem, becoming independent faster, and doing great in school.
For them, sleeping separately means peace.
While many couples who start to sleep alone think that divorce is at their door, the Japanese see it differently. They value their sleep a lot and they don’t want to be disturbed while sleeping. This means that they don’t need and don’t like to put up with snoring, restless sleep, kicking, etc. Even though some don’t have the opportunity to sleep in different rooms, they still wish they could get their beauty sleep.
Couples have a history of sleeping separately.
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Futons are filled with cotton, which provides support and comfort. In the past, only single sized ones were used as beds. So, even if you wanted to cuddle up with your loved one, you would have ended up between the sheets, on the cold floor, and you wouldn’t feel comfortable. Today there are families that still use this type of bedding, especially because it doesn’t take up a lot of space and it is easy to store.
Do you sleep separately from your partner? Do you think this type of practice might be even better for your relationship?
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Michael McGuire, a hardworking coal miner, didn’t let a shift covered in dirt stop him from sharing a special basketball game with his son at the University of Kentucky’s Rupp Arena. The heartwarming scene was captured in a viral photo that struck a chord with none other than University of Kentucky Men’s Basketball Coach John Calipari.
During a press conference, Coach Calipari revealed that the photo hit him “right between the eyes.” He took to Twitter to shаrе the poignant image and express why it resounded with him: “My family’s American dream started in a Clarksburg, WV coal mine, so this picture hits home.”
The coach was determined to give the McGuire family a memorable experience, and he reached out to Michael’s wife, Mollie. According to Mollie, her husband is a dedicated and selfless father who frequently makes the effort to spend quality time with their son, even after grueling work shifts. “He’s done this many times,” Mollie conveyed.
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Upon connecting with Michael, Calipari discovered that he was willing to forgo a shower and a change of clothes, all to make it to the game with his son. Michael’s commitment to his family left a deep impression on the coach.
“His wish was to be there with his son. That’s what truly mattered,” Calipari affirmed. The coach learned that Michael rushed to the game right after his late shift in the mine, displaying unwavering dedication.
Following the photo’s viral spread, acts of kindness began pouring in. Hotels extended offers for accommodations, restaurants reached out with invitations for dinners, and even a car dealership offered a car to the humble coal miner.
Calipari expressed his admiration for the outpouring of support and recognition Michael received. He underscored the significance of acknowledging hardworking individuals likе Michael and commended their values. “Isn’t it wonderful for someone likе him, who is a quiet, humble guy, to know that people appreciate him, and we appreciate what he stands for?” Calipari mused.
Drawing a personal connection, Coach Calipari highlighted that his own family’s journey began in a coal mine in Clarksburg, West Virginia. This sense of shаrеd beginnings fueled his determination to ensure that the McGuire family felt valued and appreciated.
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Within mere minutes of seeing the viral photo, Calipari made up his mind: “I’m taking care of this guy and his family.” The coach’s gesture reflects a deep-seated appreciation for hardworking individuals who hold family values close to their hearts.
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