In August 2017, Tony Alarcon’s phone rang unexpectedly.
Like many parents, he thought it might be a telemarketer. But this time, he answered the call.
Hearing from the school can be nerve-wracking for any parent. Tony immediately started worrying—was his daughter, Demetra, okay? Had something happened?
What he found out left him surprised.
It was a hot summer day in Northern California, with temperatures reaching 90 degrees. Tony had dropped off his 13-year-old daughter, Demetra, at school that morning. She wore a blue romper to stay cool in the heat, and neither of them thought the outfit would cause any issues.
Demetra, a student at Raymond J. Fisher Middle School in Los Gatos, California, had simply dressed for the weather.
Not everyone agreed with Demetra’s outfit. A teacher at her school said her romper was “too distracting” for the boys.
When the teacher told Demetra that her outfit was too short, her dad, Tony, rushed back to the school with a change of clothes—jean shorts and a tank top. But the school said those clothes were also inappropriate.
Tony was shocked. He asked Demetra to bend over and touch her toes in front of the school administrator. “Nothing is hanging out. There’s nothing inappropriate. I don’t understand this dress code rule,” he told TODAY.
Still, the school said her clothes were “distracting.” Since it was 90 degrees outside, Tony had no choice but to go to his car and grab a pair of leggings for Demetra to wear.
Demetra felt embarrassed.
Tony expressed his frustration, saying, “She’s just a kid. She’s only 13. She’s not trying to be a sex symbol. She just wants to be comfortable and attend class, but we’re not giving her that chance.”
This wasn’t the first time Demetra had been in trouble for her clothes. Just a week before, she was called out for a visible bra strap. “When I got dress coded last week, they said my bra strap was showing,” Demetra told the *San Jose Mercury News*. “Like, I’m wearing a bra—what’s the big deal?”
Tony, a successful investment advisor and father of two, didn’t let it go. Angry at what he saw as an unfair rule that mostly targeted girls, he took his complaint to social media. Parents from all over the country showed their support, agreeing that the school’s dress code was outdated and unfair to girls.
“Demetra’s not the only one. If you sit in the school parking lot, you’ll see that,” Tony said. “Lots of girls just want to be comfortable, but they feel forced to wear leggings even when it’s 100 degrees outside.”
Tony believed that parents, not schools, should decide if their children’s clothes are appropriate. He was also worried about how being told their clothing is a “distraction” to boys could affect young girls emotionally in the long run.
The story quickly got attention from the media, with major news outlets reporting on Tony’s efforts to change the dress code. While the school didn’t speak on camera, they did release a statement:
“The Los Gatos Union School District believes that appropriate dress and grooming contribute to a productive learning environment,” the district said. “Students are expected to wear clothes that reflect the core values of our learning community.”
Tony’s efforts made an impact. His push for change led the Los Gatos Union School District to reevaluate its dress code to make it fairer and less strict for all students.
Lisa Fraser, the school’s principal, explained that the dress code rules, called “Fashion Faux Pas,” apply to both girls and boys. Some of the rules include no hats or hoods indoors, no visible underwear, no inappropriate logos or words, and shorts must have at least 4-inch inseams.
“There has always been a dress code,” Fraser told a newspaper. “These are basic rules for appropriate behavior. I can set guidelines for the school, but I want them to reflect the community’s values.”
In the end, Tony Alarcon’s persistence started an important discussion about how school dress codes affect young girls — showing that one parent’s voice can truly make a difference.
What do you think about the school’s dress code? Have you or your children faced a similar situation? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments!
Of her 6children, Angelina Jolie has disinherited five
Celebrating her acting career and philanthropic efforts, Angelina Jolie has been a mainstay in Hollywood for many years. In addition to her notoriety, she is descended from Hollywood aristocracy and has a long family history in the entertainment business.
Angelina has received praise from all around the world for her achievements, but she also inherited a complicated web of personal struggles, cultural pressures, and family relationships.
Angelina Jolie was born in Los Angeles, California, on June 4, 1975. Her parents are the famous actors Jon Voight and Marcheline Bertrand. Actor Jon Voight, her father, is renowned for his performances in iconic films such as “Coming Home” and “Midnight Cowboy.” He has won multiple Academy Awards.
Angelina was introduced to the glamour and glitz of Hollywood at a young age, along with the responsibilities and expectations that accompany being from a well-known celebrity family.
But a stormy personal journey began when her parents divorced when she was still a kid due to their volatile relationship.
With the success of her own career, Angelina Jolie rose to become a global celebrity. She won an Academy Award for her performance in “Girl, Interrupted” and starred in big movies like
“Mr. & Mrs. Smith” and “Lara Croft: Tomb Raider.”
In addition to her career as an actress, she gained recognition for her humanitarian work by joining the UNHCR as a Special Envoy and then as a Goodwill Ambassador.
Her dedication to international causes like as gender equality and refugee rights has solidified her reputation as a socially conscious celebrity whose influence extends well beyond the cinema.
The legacy of Angelina Jolie is more than just her success in Hollywood; it’s a nuanced combination of personal achievements, family history, and an unwavering commitment to improving the world.
According to reports, Angelina Jolie revealed the specifics of her bequest, indicating that she intends to leave her $116 million fortune to her son Maddox, out of her six children.
Angelina Jolie has decided to give her son Maddox her whole fortune as a thank you for supporting her during her divorce from Brad Pitt. Jolie was upset that out of her six children, only one truly assisted her in obtaining a divorce.
Those who know the Jolie/Pitt family well say that Brad is angry with Jolie for treating Maddox like her “Golden Child” and maintaining the other kids out of her money.
Angelina Jolie Is Leaving Her Son Maddox With A Millionaire Jolie finally made the decision to leave Maddox her business out of loyalty, ignoring the other five children.
The informant claimed that Brad was “ready to be tied over Angie’s moves and is in an incredible rage.”It seemed like they had finally reached a divorce settlement. However, he had not anticipated this Maddox circumstance.
Jolie allegedly filed for divorce from Pitt in September 2016 due to her growing dissatisfaction with his parenting style. The information was purportedly released to the public following an unfortunate incident involving Brad, Angie, and Maddox, which led to one of the family’s most contentious celebrity divorces and child custody disputes in recent memory.
Jolie said that Pitt hit Maddox during the argument. The Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services conducted an inquiry, but no charges were brought. Brad, who is reportedly still quite upset over the whole thing, has reportedly been particularly enraged by Angelina’s refusal to update the record, according to a family member.
The acquaintance said that Brad believes his other children are being treated unfairly and that he will not put up with it.
Angelina Jolie’s decision to leave out Pax, Zahara, Shiloh, and the 10-year-old twins Knox and Vivienne infuriated Brad Pitt. Brad believes that giving Maddox complete control is wrong.
The insider claims that Maddox helped his mother through their divorce and that she has since appointed him CEO of her film firm.
Even though he could be her “golden boy,” Brad thinks she should be reminded of her other five children.
If this charge turns out to be accurate, Pitt and Jolie will undoubtedly have bitter arguments for years to come about the welfare of their kids.
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