Sarah Jessica Parker is known for playing the fashionable character Carrie Bradshaw in the HBO show “Sex and the City.” However, the “Footloose” star often faces criticism for her real-life fashion choices.
Sarah Jessica Parker is famous for playing the stylish Carrie Bradshaw on the HBO show “Sex and the City.” During her time on the show, she became a fashion icon, inspiring women all over the world with her glamorous looks.
Many women looked up to her as a trendsetter, using fashion to express themselves and their feelings. However, in real life, Parker has never been as passionate about fashion. In a 2012 interview with People, she said that she doesn’t relate to her character’s fashion sense. She explained:
“It’s not how I think of myself, and I think it’s probably the healthier approach.”
Parker likes nice clothes and beautiful things, but you won’t catch her in a tutu at the grocery store. She believes that fashion takes a backseat to life, especially since she has three kids. She stated:
“It’s just not a reality — not when you have three kids, and you go to the market, and there are hungry people at home. You have a limited time to do it. There’s just no time to let vanity enter into that.”
People have often noticed her style choices. In an interview with Vogue, she mentioned that she finds it funny when people criticize her looks.
Over the years, she has faced backlash for her fashion choices, including a much-discussed outfit at the Met Gala. Parker said that people borrow styles that resonate with them at different times, but some will always dislike them. She doesn’t understand why people criticize her choices. “So, what’s the point of the criticism?” she asked.
Parker has learned to ignore her critics. For her everyday outfits, she chooses what she likes without worrying too much about whether it matches.
“Unsexiest Woman Alive”
Parker also faced tough times when Maxim magazine named her “Unsexiest Woman Alive” because she doesn’t fit certain beauty standards, like getting Botox or having fuller lips. She felt that this title was harsh and hurtful, affecting her and her husband, actor Matthew Broderick.
Things got worse when paparazzi took unflattering pictures of Parker having lunch with TV host Andy Cohen. She was makeup-free with her gray hair showing, leading to negative comments about her age. Cohen defended her, pointing out that he has gray hair too and called the comments “misogynistic.”
Parker did not stay quiet about the criticism. During an interview with Vogue, she spoke about how people seem to enjoy seeing others struggle with aging. She said:
“It almost feels as if people don’t want us to be perfectly OK with where we are, as if they almost enjoy us being pained by who we are today.”
She added, “I know what I look like. I have no choice. What am I going to do about it? Stop aging? Disappear?”
However, this was not the last of the harsh comments. In 2018, she faced ridicule again after wearing an ornate headpiece to the Met Gala. People mocked her looks online, calling her a senior citizen.
In June 2023, during a chat with Howard Stern, she discussed Hollywood’s obsession with cosmetic surgery and aging. When asked how she views herself, she said, “I’m presentable,” but added that she doesn’t enjoy looking in the mirror. She acknowledged that she thinks about cosmetic procedures but has never had plastic surgery, although she has tried skin treatments like peels.
Parker reflected on potentially getting a facelift at 44 but was uncertain about it. Stern expressed relief that she hadn’t gone through with it. She understands why some people choose procedures but knows that there is societal pressure about aging. She recalled the viral photo with Cohen, where people criticized her but ignored his gray hair.
Now in her late 50s, Parker remains unbothered by her critics and has clear thoughts on aging. She said in an August 2023 interview:
“I just don’t spend that much time [thinking about appearance]. It’s not that I don’t have an ego, that I don’t have a decent, healthy amount of vanity, but I just don’t want to spend that much time really deconstructing it all.”
Choosing Family over Fashion
Despite facing criticism over her fashion choices, Parker prioritizes her family. During New York Fashion Week in 2006, while others rushed to find the perfect outfits, she chose to stay home with her family. Her son James had just started school, and she wanted to be there for him.
Now, attending events is challenging since she has three kids. She and Broderick welcomed their first child, James Wilkie, on October 28, 2002, and he is now a student at Brown University. Their twins, Tabitha and Marion, were born on June 23, 2009, through a surrogate.
Though some fans criticize her, Broderick remains supportive. He often praises Parker’s beauty and feels lucky to be with her.
They married in a surprise ceremony on May 19, 1997, and have been happy ever since. Parker mentioned that their relationship thrives because they spend time apart and then come back together. She said on a podcast:
“I know this sounds nuts, but we have lives that allow us to be away and come back together.”
Broderick often shares how much he admires Parker, recalling their first date and how he remembers her clearly walking toward him.
Despite the negative comments and criticism, Parker feels secure in her relationship, partly due to Broderick’s constant support. He calls her “just a great, beautiful, hilarious person!”
I Was About to Marry the Love of My Life – But When I Lifted the Bride’s Veil, I Called Off the Wedding
Matt stood at the altar, ready to begin the rest of his life with the woman he loved. The church was full and the priest nodded for him to lift the veil to kiss the bride. But the moment Matt lifted the delicate lace, he FROZE IN DISBELIEF and CALLED OFF THE WEDDING.
I met Sophia in the kind of way that feels too good to be real. A library. I know, it sounds like a Hallmark movie setup, right? I was looking for a book on philosophy I’d been dying to read, and just as I spotted it, another hand reached out at the same time. Hers.
She laughed before I could say a word. “Go ahead. You look like you actually plan on reading it.”
“How can you tell?” I asked, unable to hide my smile.
A man smiling in a library | Source: Midjourney
“The way your eyes lit up when you saw it,” she replied, tucking a strand of hair behind her ear. “Most people just pretend to like philosophy to sound smart.”
That was all it took. A spark. We started talking — about books, life, and the kind of things you talk about when you’re not trying too hard. I didn’t even notice when the library closed. All I knew was I didn’t want the conversation to end.
“I can’t believe we’ve been talking for three hours,” she said, checking her watch. “Time flies when you’re debating philosophy with a stranger.”
“Maybe we shouldn’t be strangers anymore,” I suggested. “I’m Matt.”
“Sophia!” she replied, her smile making my heart skip a beat. “And I’d love to continue this discussion over coffee sometime.”
A delighted woman in a library | Source: Midjourney
From there, things moved fast, but they always felt right. Sophia was the kind of person who made the world feel lighter. She was smart, kind, and beautiful in this effortless way, like she wasn’t even trying to be. Within a year, I was down on one knee, holding out the ring I knew would look perfect on her hand.
“Sophia,” I said, my voice trembling, “you make every day feel like that first moment in the library. Will you marry me?”
Tears welled up in her eyes. “Yes, Matt! A thousand times yes!”
And that’s how our journey began. But there was one complication: her sister, Emily.
Grayscale shot of man proposing to his girlfriend | Source: Unsplash
Emily was… different. Looking at her was like seeing Sophia’s reflection in a slightly warped mirror. They shared the same delicate features, the same honey-blonde hair, and the same bright eyes. Most people assumed they were twins, and the sisters would often joke about it.
But while they may have looked alike on the outside, Emily had this intense energy about her, like she was always a second away from doing something unpredictable.
“You know,” people would often say, “if I didn’t know better, I’d swear you two were identical twins.”
Sophia would laugh it off, but Emily would always get this strange look in her eyes, like she was filing away that information for later. She had always been… obsessed with me. At first, I thought it was harmless — a little extra attention here and there, playful teasing when Sophia wasn’t around.
But over time, it became unsettling.
A woman flirtatiously smiling at someone | Source: Midjourney
When Sophia wasn’t looking, Emily would linger too long, touch my arm unnecessarily, or make comments that felt more personal than a sister-in-law-to-be should.
“You know, Matt,” Emily would say, her fingers lingering on my shoulder, “Sophia’s so lucky to have found you. I’ve always wanted someone just like you. We even look so much alike… doesn’t that feel like fate?”
“Emily, please,” I’d say, stepping away uncomfortably. “I love your sister.”
“Love is such a complicated thing, isn’t it?” she’d reply with that unsettling smile. “Sometimes we think we know what we want, but we’re wrong. And sometimes what we want is right in front of us, wearing a different face.”
It was unnerving, but I convinced myself it wasn’t worth making a big deal over.
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When I brought it up to Sophia, she just brushed it off. “That’s just Emily being Emily,” she’d say with a laugh, as if her sister’s behavior was some running joke I wasn’t in on.
“I don’t know, Sophia,” I’d press. “Something feels off about the way she acts around me.”
“Matt, honey, she’s had a rough time lately. She’s just trying to find her place in the world. Please, for me, try to understand?”
I let it go, not wanting to create unnecessary drama. After all, we were planning a wedding, and I wanted everything to be perfect.
But looking back, I should’ve trusted my gut.
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The wedding day arrived like a dream. The church was packed, every pew filled with family and friends. The hum of anticipation filled the air, and I stood at the altar, palms sweating, my heart pounding in my chest.
Dave, my best man, nudged me with a grin. “You good, man? You look like you might pass out.”
I chuckled nervously. “Yeah, I’m good. Just… ready to see her, you know?”
“I’ve never seen you this nervous,” Dave whispered. “Not even when you were practicing your proposal speech for three weeks straight.”
“This is different,” I replied, adjusting my tie for the hundredth time. “This is forever.”
“And it’s perfect,” Dave assured me. “You and Sophia? You’re meant to be.”
And then, the organ began to play.
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The heavy oak doors at the back of the church creaked open, and there she was. My bride. Sophia. She looked radiant in her white gown, her face hidden beneath a delicate lace veil. For a moment, it felt like the air had been knocked out of my lungs.
Step by step, she made her way down the aisle, her father guiding her arm. I couldn’t take my eyes off her, but something felt… strange. Her movements were stiff and her posture rigid. She wasn’t looking at me, not the way she always did.
I told myself it was nerves. We were both nervous — it was a big day, after all.
The ceremony began, the priest’s voice a blur as he led us through the vows. When the moment came to lift her veil, my hands trembled. This was it. The moment I’d been waiting for. But when I lifted the veil, my heart STOPPED.
It wasn’t Sophia. It was… EMILY.
A cheerful woman in a bridal attire | Source: Midjourney
“EMILY? What are you doing here?” I gasped.
How had I not realized sooner? The similar height, the same build, the matching honey-blonde hair — it had made her cruel deception possible.
The gasp that erupted from the crowd sounded distant, like it was coming from underwater. My chest tightened, and I took a step back, staring at her in disbelief.
“What the hell is this?” I gasped. “Where is Sophia?”
Emily smiled this small, smug smile that made my stomach turn. “Sophia’s not coming,” she said softly, like she was breaking the news gently.
A startled groom | Source: Midjourney
“What are you talking about? Where is she?”
Emily took a step closer, her eyes locked on mine. “She doesn’t love you, Matt. She was never going to show up today. But I’m here. I’ve always been here.”
“This isn’t happening,” I muttered, running my hands through my hair. “This can’t be happening.”
“But it is happening!” Emily whispered, reaching for my hand. “This is fate, Matt. You and me. It’s always been you and me.”
I stared at her, trying to make sense of the words coming out of her mouth. “You’re lying.”
“I’m not. She doesn’t want this. She doesn’t want you. But I do. I’ve loved you since the day I met you. And I know you love me too, even if you won’t admit it.”
A furious bride | Source: Midjourney
“Stop it!” I shouted, my voice echoing through the church. “Where is my fiancée? What have you done with Sophia?”
“She’s exactly where she’s meant to be! She doesn’t want to see you, let alone marry you!”
Her words hit me like a punch to the gut. My hands clenched at my sides, my head spinning. I tried calling Sophia but her number was disconnected.
“You’re insane. This wedding is over!” I hissed at Emily.
“Matt, please,” she begged, grabbing my arm. “Everything I did, I did for us. Can’t you see that?”
I yanked my arm away. “There is no us, Emily. There never was, and there never will be.”
I turned to the crowd, my voice louder now. “Thank you all for coming. But there will be no wedding today.”
A disheartened groom | Source: Midjourney
“You’ll regret this!” Emily screamed as I walked away. “She’ll never love you like I do!”
And with that, I walked out, leaving the chaos behind me.
I couldn’t sleep that night. The moment kept looping in my head, over and over, refusing to let me rest. How could Emily possibly think this would work? And where the hell was Sophia? I tried calling her again, but every time, it went straight to voicemail.
The next morning, my phone rang. I almost didn’t answer — it could’ve been anyone calling to ask what happened. But something told me to pick up.
“Matt?”
My heart stopped. “Sophia?”
A shocked man talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney
Her voice was shaky and desperate. “I’m so sorry. I’m calling from my dad’s phone. I didn’t mean for any of this to happen.”
“Where were you?” I demanded, my anger and relief mixing into something I couldn’t describe.
She broke down, sobbing. “Emily locked me in the attic.”
“What?” I froze, gripping the phone tighter. “What are you talking about?”
“She told me she had a surprise for me,” Sophia said through her tears. “She said she wanted to give me something before we left for the wedding. When I went into the attic, she shoved me in and locked the door after grabbing my phone. I screamed, Matt. I screamed so much, but no one could hear me.”
A helpless bride trapped in an attic | Source: Midjourney
“Oh God, Sophia,” I choked out, tears streaming down my face. “I should have known something was wrong. I should have protected you.”
“I was so scared,” she whispered. “Not just for me, but for you. I knew what she was capable of, but I never thought… I never imagined she’d go this far.”
I sat down, my head in my hands. “She locked you in the attic to… to take your place?”
Sophia’s silence said everything.
“I kept banging on the door,” she finally continued, her voice breaking. “I kept calling for help until my voice gave out. And the whole time, I could hear the wedding music playing below. I could hear everything, Matt. Everything. I fainted from exhaustion. My dad found me hours later and told me the wedding was off.”
“I’m coming over,” I said, grabbing my keys. “Right now.”
An anxious woman talking on the phone | Source: Midjourney
“Matt,” she called out before I could hang up. “I love you. I need you to know that.”
“I love you too. More than anything.”
When I got to her house, Sophia ran into my arms, her face pale and tear-streaked. I held her tightly, my emotions threatening to spill over.
“I’m so sorry,” she whispered.
“Look at me,” I said, gently lifting her chin. “None of this is your fault. Emily… she needs help.”
“I should have seen it coming,” Sophia said, trembling. “All those times, the way she’d look at you, the things she’d say when we weren’t around. I thought if I just loved her enough, supported her enough…”
“This isn’t your fault,” I said. “Emily’s sick. She needs help, but that doesn’t mean we let this slide.”
A disheartened man lost in deep thought | Source: Midjourney
“What are we going to do?” Sophia asked, her eyes meeting mine.
“We’re going to do what’s right,” I replied, taking her hand. “For everyone’s sake.”
We pressed charges against Emily. It wasn’t an easy decision, but it was the right one. Her actions weren’t just a harmless prank — they were dangerous and calculated. She needed to face the consequences.
“I never wanted it to come to this,” Sophia sobbed as we left the police station. “She’s my sister, Matt. My little sister.”
“I know, love,” I said, holding her close. “But sometimes loving someone means making the hard choices. She needs help, and this is the only way to make sure she gets it.”
A heartbroken woman | Source: Midjourney
Emily’s betrayal left scars, but it didn’t destroy us. Sophia and I took time to heal, to rebuild the trust and love that had been tested so deeply. And when we were ready, we planned a new wedding — smaller, quieter, but filled with the people who truly supported us.
This time, when Sophia walked down the aisle, there wasn’t a single doubt in my mind. When I lifted her veil and saw her radiant smile, I knew we had weathered the storm together, and we were stronger for it.
“I do,” she said, her voice strong and clear, without any trace of fear or doubt.
“I do,” I replied, meaning it more than ever before.
And as we sealed our vows with a kiss, I realized that true love isn’t just about the perfect moments… it’s about surviving the imperfect ones together.
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