How we choose to raise our children and the lessons we decide to ingrain in them from an early age differs from parent to parent.
It’s only natural, of course. Some mothers and fathers take a more disciplined approach, for example, while others prefer to let their kids go through a try and fail cycle so that they can learn right and wrong through their own experiences.
Now, for the most part, how one chooses to style their son or daughter’s upbringing is their business, no one else’s. Yet that doesn’t stop people commenting and criticizing online every time a debate is sparked over some parental decision or another…
I remember when I was younger, doing chores was considered part and parcel of everyday life. I mean for me and my siblings, of course, not only my mother.
Doing dishes, making beds, helping to prepare food before mealtimes… the list goes on and on.
I understand times change, but in my mind getting children to help out with tasks around the house – providing there’s no danger involved – is a great way to instill values and a worth ethic that will come in handy later on.
It seems, though, that not everyone agrees. According to reports, one mother found this out the hard way a few years back after she uploaded pictures of her son and shared her method of giving him chores to do with the internet.
The mom in question, 22-year-old Nikkole Paulun, reportedly explained how she proudly put her 7-year-old son, Lyle, to work around the house, where he would help out with things like cooking and cleaning.
Nothing too dramatic, I’m sure we can all agree, but that didn’t stop online detractors from verbally attacking her and expressing concern over the potential impact on the child’s emotional well-being.
The bulk of the critics targeted the fact that the mother had shared her son’s chores online, not only potentially making other parents question themselves, but also flagging the idea that the child might not want to have his daily activities shared with a large number of strangers online.
One woman went as far as to write in the comments that Nikkole couldn’t just let her child “be your slave. Or to do the chores that you yourself don’t want to do.”
Another wrote: “So I take it you can do everything ur teaching ur son to do or are you just putting pressure on ur child?”
A third added: “Don’t get me wrong… a child should know responsibility. .. but should not be operating a stove that young.“
A fourth wrote: “Lazy mother’s are sweeping the country. It’s good to teach them while they’re young but i notice alot of these single mom’s are just raising their boy’s to be the man that they wish they always had.“
There were many who defended Nikkole in the comments, too, with her post gaining viral status after it garnered over 8,000 comments and 156,000 interactions on Facebook.
Nikkole herself insisted that she enjoys doing housework and that her son Lyle “just helps along the way & earns allowance as well.
What’s more, she added that her then-one-year-old daughter, Ellie, would be following in her elder siblings steps and doing the same thing when she was a little older.
What do you think to Nikkole’s parenting approach and the criticism she got for it? Let us know your thoughts in the comments box.
Crucial Techniques for Preventing Infections in Your Eyes
As essential sensory organs, our eyes enable us to see and understand the world around us. Preserving our eyes against dangerous diseases and infections is a crucial part of keeping them in optimal health and maintaining our eyesight.
Many things, such as bacteria, viruses, allergies, and poor eye care techniques, can result in eye infections. We’ll look at a few key tactics in this post that can help you avoid eye infections and keep your vision intact for years to come.
- Frequent Handwashing: One of the best defenses against eye infections is keeping your hands clean. To get rid of dangerous bacteria and viruses, properly wash your hands with soap and water before handling contact lenses or touching your eyes.
- Avoid Eye Touching: Several surfaces that come into contact with our hands could be home to dangerous microbes. Avoid unnecessary eye touching or rubbing, as it can introduce bacteria and irritants, potentially leading to infections or worsening existing ones.
- Proper Contact Lens Care: Follow your eye doctor’s instructions on proper cleanliness if you wear contact lenses. Unless your eye care specialist instructs you otherwise, clean and sanitize your lenses on a regular basis, replace them when necessary, and refrain from sleeping with them on.
- Eyewear Hygiene: If your glasses or sunglasses come into touch with dust, debris, or bacteria, make sure they are cleaned and sanitized on a regular basis to avoid transferring these elements to your eyes.
- Personal Eye Makeup: By dispersing bacteria and viruses, sharing eye makeup products with others raises the risk of eye infections. Avoid borrowing or lending eyeliner, mascara, or eye shadow, and replace your eye makeup regularly to prevent the buildup of harmful microorganisms.
- Protection in Polluted Environments: Use the proper goggles or eye protection if you reside in or are exposed to extremely polluted environments with irritants like smoke, dust, or chemicals to reduce the risk of injury to your eyes.
- Allergy Awareness:Avoid rubbing your eyes if you are prone to allergies brought on by pollen or pet dander and use over-the-counter or prescription antihistamine eye drops to relieve symptoms.
- Maintain a Healthy Lifestyle: Maintaining optimal eye health requires a diet rich in important vitamins and minerals, especially vitamin A, and well-balanced. Include items like salmon, citrus fruits, carrots, and spinach in your diet. In addition to hydrating your eyes, maintaining adequate hydration lowers your chance of developing dry eye infections.
- Regular Eye Exams: Early detection and prevention of eye infections and other eye-related issues require routine eye exams by optometrists or ophthalmologists. These experts are capable of spotting possible issues and offering insightful advice to protect the health of your eyes.
- Give Your Eyes a Break: To reduce eye fatigue caused by prolonged screen time, follow the 20-20-20 rule—every 20 minutes, look at something 20 feet away for 20 seconds. This easy routine can assist in lowering the incidence of eye infections.
In conclusion, you can successfully prevent infections in your eyes by implementing these simple procedures into your everyday routine. You may preserve clean, clear eyesight by doing frequent eye exams, paying attention to eye care products, and emphasizing excellent cleanliness. To preserve your vision and enjoy the world’s beauty with healthy eyes, always remember that prevention is always better to treatment.
How to Keep Your Eyes Healthy
1. Eat Well
Good eye health starts with the food on your plate. Nutrients like omega-3 fatty acids, lutein, zinc, and vitamins C and E might help ward off age-related vision problems like macular degeneration and cataracts. To get them, fill your plate with:
- Green leafy vegetables like spinach, kale, and collards
- Salmon, tuna, and other oily fish
- Eggs, nuts, beans, and other nonmeat protein sources
- Oranges and other citrus fruits or juices
- Oysters and pork
A well-balanced diet also helps you stay at a healthy weight. That lowers your odds of obesity and related diseases like type 2 diabetes, which is the leading cause of blindness in adults.
2. Quit Smoking
It makes you more likely to get cataracts, damage to your optic nerve, and macular degeneration, among many other medical problems. If you’ve tried to kick the habit before only to start again, keep at it. The more times you try to quit, the more likely you are to succeed. Ask your doctor for help.
3. Wear Sunglasses
The right pair of shades will help protect your eyes from the sun’s ultraviolet (UV) rays. Too much UV exposure boosts your chances of cataracts and macular degeneration.
Choose a pair that blocks 99% to 100% of UVA and UVB rays. Wraparound lenses help protect your eyes from the side. Polarized lenses reduce glare while you drive, but don’t necessarily offer added protection.If you wear contact lenses, some offer UV protection. It’s still a good idea to wear sunglasses for an extra layer.
4. Use Safety Eyewear
If you use hazardous or airborne materials on the job or at home, wear safety glasses or protective goggles.
Sports like ice hockey, racquetball, and lacrosse can also lead to eye injury. Wear eye protection. Helmets with protective face masks or sports goggles with polycarbonate lenses will shield your eyes.
5. Look Away From the Computer Screen
Staring at a computer or phone screen for too long can cause:
- Eyestrain
- Blurry vision
- Trouble focusing at a distance
- Dry eyes
- Headaches
- Neck, back, and shoulder pain
To protect your eyes:
- Make sure your glasses or contacts prescription is up to date and good for looking at a computer screen.
- If your eye strain won’t go away, talk to your doctor about computer glasses.
- Move the screen so your eyes are level with the top of the monitor. That lets you look slightly down at the screen.
- Try to avoid glare from windows and lights. Use an anti-glare screen if needed.
- Choose a comfortable, supportive chair. Position it so that your feet are flat on the floor.
- If your eyes are dry, blink more or try using artificial tears.
- Rest your eyes every 20 minutes. Look 20 feet away for 20 seconds. Get up at least every 2 hours and take a 15-minute break.
6. Visit Your Eye Doctor Regularly
Everyone needs a regular eye exam, even young children. It helps protect your sight and lets you see your best.
Eye exams can also find diseases, like glaucoma, that have no symptoms. It’s important to spot them early on, when they’re easier to treat.
Depending on your eye health needs, you can see one of two types of doctors:
- Ophthalmologists are medical doctors who specialize in eye care. They can provide general eye care, treat eye diseases, and perform eye surgery.
- Optometrists have had 4 years of specialized training after college. They provide general eye care and can diagnose and treat most eye diseases. They don’t do eye surgery.
A comprehensive eye exam might include:
- Talking about your personal and family medical history
- Vision tests to see if you’re nearsighted, farsighted, have an astigmatism (a curved cornea that blurs vision), or presbyopia (age-related vision changes)
- Tests to see how well your eyes work together
- Eye pressure and optic nerve tests to check for glaucoma
- External and microscopic examination of your eyes before and after dilation
You might also need other tests.
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