Most parents would give their entire world for the well-being of their children, but sadly, not every child gets to live in a loving home and experience affection, care, and love. Some are neglected and even abused by those who are supposed to provide for them and treat them as jewels.
Four people took to Reddit to tell their life stories and share how beside the injustice and the horrible treatment by their parents they still managed to stand on their feet and turn their lives around. As of their moms and dads, they got what they deserved at the end.
Read their stories below.
Father Needs Son’s Help after Bringing Him up in an Abusive Childhood
In 2019, an individual who identified as Asian turned to Reddit’s “AITA” forum to share a narrative. Recounting his upbringing, the man revealed that his father’s treatment during his childhood was marked by being frequently kicked out of his home.
The family’s financial struggles led them to reside in a subpar townhouse in an unfavorable part of town. Following the common stereotype associated with Asian fathers, the narrator’s dad exhibited extreme strictness regarding academic performance.
If the original poster (OP) received a grade below 70, was tardy to class, or failed to adhere to a curfew, his father’s response was consistent: eviction from the house. Despite his pleas and appeals, he would find himself relegated outdoors with only a sleeping bag, regardless of the weather conditions — rain or snow.
This pattern continued until the age of 16 when a friend extended the courtesy of allowing OP to stay overnight. Each time he was expelled, he would eventually return, apologize, and be permitted to re-enter the home, with him revealing: “[My father] kicked me out at 18 and I didn’t come back home.”
Instead, he opted to stay with a friend and engaged in consistent employment to finance his education. From that day onward, he stopped communicating with his father. Finally, at the age of 29, he found marital bliss with a child on the way.
OP’s mother passed away at the time—a poignant event that brought about a series of unexpected encounters. Amid the atmosphere of mourning and reflection, his father made an appearance at his son’s home, bearing the weight of past grievances. It appeared to be an attempt at reconciliation for the turbulent upbringing that had marked OP’s formative years.
Despite initial perceptions of genuineness, a lingering skepticism arose because OP’s dad had faced his own share of hardships. The closure of his convenience store seven years prior and the deterioration of his pension painted a complex backdrop to the situation.
In a moment that demanded honesty and clarity, the Redditor took the initiative to question his father’s motives for his visit. With a tone of desperation, his dad admitted his intentions—he sought a place to stay. OP, perhaps burdened by a mix of emotions from the past and the present, retreated momentarily into the house.
Upon returning, a sleeping bag was flung unceremoniously onto the lawn—an act loaded with the history of past rejections and a symbol of his dad’s actions. An essential facet of the narrative was inadvertently omitted in the initial retelling. Over time, the father had sought to make amends through sporadic financial offerings sent via mail.
These modest sums, accumulating to around $1500, remained tucked away in the recesses of OP’s closet, which he intended to return at his mother’s funeral reception. Upon the passing of his mother, his wife and friends reacted to his decision.
Woman Spends 10 Years at Home Raising 4 Kids, Husband Complains He is the Only Breadwinner
One evening, after an exhausting day at the office, Henry returned home, dropped his briefcase on the couch, loosened his tie, and settled in to watch TV. When Alison asked him for help retrieving something from a high shelf, he ignored her, choosing instead to relax. Frustrated, Alison asked again, and this time, Henry snapped.
“I’ve been working all day, and you’ve been home doing nothing! Can’t I just have a moment of peace?” he shouted. His words deeply offended Alison, leading to a heated argument. She defended her role, pointing out that managing the household and raising their kids was no small feat. Henry, still unwilling to see her side, retorted, “I work hard to provide for this family while you just cook, clean, and look after the kids. You get breaks. I don’t.”
Tired of the constant dismissals, Alison proposed they swap roles, challenging Henry to see firsthand who had the more demanding job. Confident that he would breeze through her responsibilities, Henry agreed to the switch.
The next morning, Alison prepared for her first day at Henry’s office, while Henry, eager to prove himself, tackled the household duties. Things quickly went awry. He burnt breakfast, struggled to get the kids ready for school, and even accidentally brought the wrong child home at pick-up time. His attempts to do laundry ended in disaster, with his white shirts dyed in bright colors. Dinner was another fiasco—burnt tortillas filled the kitchen with smoke, and Henry was left exhausted and overwhelmed.
By the fourth day of their challenge, Alison returned home to find the house spotless and dinner neatly plated on the table. For a moment, she was stunned. Had Henry finally mastered the art of homemaking? But Henry quickly revealed the truth—he had hired a housekeeper to manage the tasks he couldn’t handle.
“Honey, I’m so sorry,” Henry said, offering her a bouquet of roses. “I’ve realized just how hard you work, and I was wrong to take it for granted. You win.”
Alison, touched by his newfound understanding, forgave him. They decided to keep the housekeeper to lighten Alison’s load, allowing her more time with the children. From that day on, Henry never complained about his job again, and he was always quick to help Alison whenever she needed it.
Moral of the story: Don’t underestimate or take someone’s responsibilities for granted. Henry thought managing the household was easy until he experienced the challenges firsthand. It was only after swapping roles with his wife that he truly appreciated the hard work Alison had been doing all along.
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